The "tanned" part might only apply to their forearms. But those forearms are great. This is where I started laughing If anything farmers are some of the un-healthiest eaters I know. They spend the majority of their day in a tractor cab, eating on the go, and get very little sleep. That doesn't equate to "fit, toned, and tanned".
Many farmers subscribe to good ol' fashioned family values -- and will be proud to treat you with gentleness and respect. There's something sexy about working the land, cultivating plants and raising beef that nourish a nation. Your stomach will benefit. It's trendy to be eco-aware. Your farmer is as close to being "one with the land" as they come. The rural lifestyle provides plenty of fresh air, vitamin D, and panoramic views with zero skyscrapers in sight. Farmers are essentially small business owners.
They must have both brains and brawn to keep their farm running successfully. Farmers are community players, often helping out neighboring farms when another farmer is struggling to get their crops in on time. Farmers work hard every single day of the year without complaint. Here is another one where I literally laughed out loud.
Farmers complain A LOT. It rains too much, it doesn't rain, it freezes. It takes being a good listener and being a glass half full person to love a farmer and that's just reality. Farmers don't live in condos. No they don't, but any gal can attest to the fact that I am not so sure old dilapidated farm houses aren't much better If a few dozen cattle can trust the farmer with their lives, surely your date can handle responsibility.
Yes, eHarmony, many farmers subscribe to good ol' fashioned family values, but not all will put you on a pedestal. Some will view you as an equal partner in the relationship where you will be working just as hard. There IS something sexy about working the land and cultivating plants, I mean Kenny Chesney even sings about how she finds his tractor sexy Instead he brings home "the bread" in another sense so that we can live a comfortable life.
And there is nothing wrong with that. Farmers do indeed have roots where they are settled and usually have long-term plans to stay there, but I wouldn't necessarily see this as a reason to date a farmer. Being someone who moved because I fell in love with a farmer, it's a hard sacrifice to give up your life where you are now and move because the farmer you are dating is rooted where he is.
And you've got to be ready to face that. Of course, it can end up being a blessing in disguise, but it doesn't take away the fact it is tough. Cooking for a farmer during harvest season will challenge your creativity in the kitchen. In some of the comments after the article, a few women were talking about how farmers are usually meat and potatoes guys and won't challenge them in the kitchen.
Trying to prepare meals on the go for months on end WILL test your creativity in the kitchen to the fullest. Eventually, I think we all give up and sandwiches it is! The rural lifestyle DOES provide you with fresh air, vitamin D, and panoramic views, but it is one of the hardest things you will do.
You can visit your date at work. And you can help them at work. But it's a fine line to walk before your farmer will start expecting your help and teaching you how to do things like drive tractor. Farmers ARE small business owners and as any small business owner knows, it does require brains and brawn but it also carries A TON of stress.
This constant worry will be there always and stress is something you come to live with on a day-to-day basis.
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Even though we can plan out our year on paper, there is a lot of uncertainty in farming. Lots of things can happen that will cause failures. If you can't handle uncertainty, dating a farmer may not be for you. Okay, so eHarmony hit this one right on the nail Farmers are community players and they DO help out a neighbor in need.
That is percent true no matter where you live. Farmers understand the struggle and are always willing to help a fellow farmer in need. We can try to force our human dreams onto the land, or we can work with what nature gives us. On our farm, wild turkeys, deer, cottontail rabbits, and raccoons naturally flourish.
Conversely, a few years back, we tried raising free-range ducks. We learned the hard way how they evinced their waterfowl instincts: In a matter of weeks, they turned acres of pasture into muddy ponds. The following season, we stopped raising ducks and have been happier ever since. Everyone knows that farming is hard work. So do yourself a favor: It may seem like common sense, but we often find our decisions driven more by finances, tradition, or inertia than by something we truly love. Go out on a limb, and grow heirloom apples if you want. Consider it your first reward.
There will be more. Yes, yes, we all know that you were a double major, the captain of the fencing team, and turned down a Fulbright to construct Mongolian yurts in the Peace Corps. Now repeat after me:. Take care of yourself. Burnout is big in farming. You already know that the work is physically taxing, with unique emotional demands. Visualize a fifty-year career, and set annual, reasonable goals that will get you there.
Check in with yourself frequently. Whatever…I raise pigs, cut me some slack. In , when I was twenty years old, I found myself talking to an older farming couple at a local picnic. We both raised cattle for a living, but they sold their animals straight to corn-fed feedlots.
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I told them our farm could provide food for several hundred families once I really got going. When I had finished speaking, they turned to each other, made eye contact, and burst into uncontrollable laughter. Eighteen years later, despite this withering response from my elders they apologized for their behavior after they managed to stop laughing, bless their hearts , our farm has accomplished all of these goals and much, much more. Believe in yourself, and just go for it.
As for that couple? Five years ago, they put a sign up at the end of their lane: Pardon me while I indulge in a moment of uncontrollable laughter. Think about it for a second.
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Take an average day at a mainstream job. A client gets pissed off, or an irate customer reams out the supervisor. Maybe Larry whatever happened to guys named Larry, anyway? Somebody get that guy a golf shirt! On any given day on a farm, things die.
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And not in any noble, dignified, or discreet kind of way, either. Have you ever walked through the morning dew to check on your free-range chickens cue love theme from St. Frankly, it puts this whole farming thing in perspective pretty quickly. And faced with the possibility of daily mayhem, a sense of humor can be a handy-dandy coping mechanism. I learned this particular bit of wisdom from Travis, a farmhand of over 50 years. After pulling a mummified calf from a laboring heifer one afternoon, he regarded me with pale, unblinking eyes.
Okay, so this is really numbers nine, ten, and eleven all rolled into one. Consider it a farming Venn diagram. Last but not least bonus rule! Be generous with your knowledge, especially with people who want to learn from you. Still want to be a farmer? By all means, join us.